underage dating

if my boyfriend and i started dating when i was 16 and he was 14 and i am now 19 and he is turning 17 can i still get in trouble with the law even though we were dating before either of us was an adult??? please help!

if my boyfriend and i started dating when i was 16 and he was 14 and i am now 19 and he is turning 17 can i still get in trouble with the law even though we were dating before either of us was an adult??? please help!

Originally Posted by Unregistered if my boyfriend and i started dating when i was 16 and he was 14 and i am now 19 and he is turning 17 can i still get in trouble with the law even though we were dating before either of us was an adult??? please help!

only if you had sexual contact with each other. at 14, he was not legally able to consent. he still may not be, depending on your state's law. my advice is, keep your clothes on and your hands to yourself untill he is 18, or YOU could face criminal charges if you and he do anything that sexually arouses him. remember, YOU are a legal adult, HE is still legally a child.

[SweetBride202]

I think that's what we called up as puppy love. But dating with that age is okey but just be aware of sexual intercourse because both of you still not yet at the right age.
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I'm from Illinois, 17 soon to be 18 and my girlfriend, whom is 14, and I have been seeing each other for 6 months, soon to be 7 August 26th, is there any laws that state being with an individual for a length of time makes relationship choices consented? I've heard of this and wondered if it was true. I'm sure everyone says this but my intentions are good with this girl and I care about her more than anything. I treat her with respect and have never forced her into doing anything. I love her to death and just wish these laws wouldn't restrict the feelings we both have. When it comes to our relationship we're both on the same page of what we want and that is to be together for the rest of our lives. She's mentally mature and knows that love isn't this fairytale where everyone is happy. She realizes arguements will arise and it won't always be easy, as do I. I'm not into younger girls and do not go to them as a fetish. I have dated girls the same age as me, older, and a year or two younger, but she is by far the youngest I have ever been with. I am exactly 3 years, 10 months, and one day older than her, if that helps any? The sex thing, yeah, I've heard it all already. Guys ARE like that but honestly, I'm not. I just lost my virginity last year because I waited for someone who it would be special with. Sex has never been important to me and it isn't in this relationship. People think they can judge it just on age but don't ever get to know the individuals, both of them. They choose to point fingers and assume which isn't right. If it's okay for a 90 year old to marry a 19 year, then what's wrong with my situation? I don't find her as an object of lust, I see her as a person who makes me happy and a person that I would like to be with without restriction of the whole age thing. I mean, those of you who are married out there reading probably aren't the same age as your spouse, so how would you like it to be told you cannot be with them because you're older or vice versa? I agree with the law to an extent of a person who doesn't have good intentions, yes, that IS wrong. I would like to get the benefit of the doubt from all of you reading this that I am a good person as are my intentions, but none of you will. I just would like to know these things in case it was brought to court. Awhile back her mother almost approved of her seeing me and wanted to meet me until her father said no. She has been in older relationships before but I'm the first who will be a legal adult in the near future. Help? Please and thank you very much.

No matter how much you prattle, you are too old for dating a 14 year old child. You don't say when you will turn 18, but once you do, you will be held to the law if her parents decide to go after you for statutory rape.

Find a girlfriend closer to your own age. A 14 year old child cannot possibly know who she wants to spend the entire rest of her life is. Her tastes, feelings, opinions will change over the years and nobody, nobody can say in the moment how they will always feel for life.

Teenagers are so emotionally charged. They think they know everything, think they can see the future, and think they'll never feel any different than they do right now. It's simply fantastic thinking.

This child may seem mature to you but she is still only a child. She is just now entering high school and you are about to graduate, if you haven't already.

On the point of married couples having age difference, the biggest difference is that these people are OF AGE, meaning adults. You both are children, but you are much closer to adulthood.

If your love is as strong as you purport it to be, wait until she's old enough to have an adult relationship with you (as is respectful) and go from there.

[caymannleighh1]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating since july and im 15 but im a sophomore and he is 18 but is a senior. we are about 2 years and 10 months apart. and tonight my mom told me that i cant date him because he is an adult and im a minor. but is it against the law if im dating him as long as we arent doing sexual things?

[caymannleighh1]

omg your crazyy!