Sister Drama in Florida- Continues

[Gwalk]

I continue to have issues with my sister and I thank you all who provided your advice; It was very good advice and I will take heed.

However, here's the new issue.She left home around May 5th because she had another tantrum that I refuse to allow her male guest to stay at the house and she moved out for almost 2 months to another sister's house. I had no idea where she was and she didn't say, but rather stop by to check her male and make nasty remarks when I'd asked about her whereabouts. She returned July 2nd with another guest (my great niece 7 months old) and informed me by text she has temporary custody of the child and she and the baby would be coming home this day. I had no idea the baby was in her care until the day she came home. I text her back and informed her we'd talk about the matter when I got home. When I did get home, she met me at the car and informed me baby was here. I said, "Ok." I asked her how was she going to take care of the baby and go to school (sister is in school)? She said the State will help her (money, daycare, food, clothing, etc.). She then informed me that she will be getting the baby's siblings to come to live with us later. I asked her why hadn't I been told regarding this matter? She said, "Why do I need to ask? "Didn't you say this was the family house?" and I replied, "You did not discuss with me these other people coming to stay with us." She said she was appalled I called the children "these people," and the conversation was over and they will be coming to stay. Later that night, I tried talking to her to find out why she had the child and why she would get the others and she said she didn't want to talk to me, speaking harsh expletives to me and pushed me out of her room locked the door behind me. About two days later, we were able to have a slightly civil conversation about what she did and what happened, but a day later, the nastiness returned.

In order for her have gotten temporary custody of the baby, Children Family Services (HRS) had to have done a background check on her (which said she passed), but I was not informed of this home survey (I was at work). I don't know why HRS didn't contact me or do a background check on me as well, since I'm the homeowner to see if I gave my sister permission for the child to live at the house, to see If I my background would checkout, or perhaps she told them she was the owner; my sister never informed me on what she told them. She allowed HRS Caseworkers do a walk-through of my home without my permission. I asked my sister did she tell HRS she owned the house? She said, "No, you owned the house, but I lived with you.' HRS also asked her if I would have any involvement with the children? She said, "No, due to her later work hours."

I believe HRS should have contacted me regarding this stay, or my sister should have given them my telephone number to contact me when this walk-through occurred.
I feel my sister over-stepped her boundary giving that authority.

I also prepared a Month-to-Month Roomate Agreement for her to look over, make changes after we've discussed it and to sign for this year (2012). The previous aggreement was verbal since June 2011. This year (2012) I wanted to get something in writing, but she refused to sign it because she did not believe she needed to sign because she's in "my mother's house." She still fail to recognize that I now technically own the house and property, although it was heirs' property and she refuses to adhere to any suggestions or rules I put in place. I continue to pay all the expenses at the house including property taxes, personal items such as toilet paper, paper towels, etc. and I've yet to get any help from her. So far, I've carred the load this year (2012). Therefore, I'll have to evict her because it's difficult living with her nasty demeaner and her lack of paying her share of the expenses. I thought rather than prepare these papers myself, I will contact my lawyer to start the eviction proceedings. I've already informed her as of the day she returned home (July 2) , I am in the process of evicting her. Please let me know if going through my lawer is the the most effective way to handle this matter. I'd appreciate any positive advice I can get regarding this concern.

[AFFA]

I wish to inform you that you may serve an eviction notice. If the tenant does not move out or resolve the matter, you may file a lawsuit. You may self represent yourself in the Court or you may appoint an attorney. The burden of proof will be on you to prove the claims being made by you. The Court will consider all the facts and decide the matter.

AFF

[Friend In Court]

Yes, with the situation you described, going through your lawyer, a third party is probably the only way she will get it through her head that you mean business and the matter will be handled in a business-like manner. She presumes and assumes a lot since it was once the family home and cannot seem to get it through her head it is no longer "mom's house" where she could come and go as she pleased but YOUR house now and she has to respect that fact and you.