help me, im a good guy...restraining order?

[barnemic]

ok so here are two words i thought i would never have to talk about. ok, so, i just turned 18 and my girlfriend is 17 and will be 18 in november..we are engaged to eachother. and ever since her dad found out we had plans to marry hes been freaking out, which i understand as a father thats probaly normal. but, resently hes been very jealous and threatened my father saying he will end the relationship at all costs, which scarred my whole family becuase my family loves me and my wonderful girlfriend. he filed a tempory restraining order, our hearing is march 10th. he LIED on the court document saying i threatened her with rape and sexual assult, we have never had sex, we are waiting for marriage. and i believe this to be PERJURY? now, back a few months ago an old friend of mine starting texting her(with out my knowlege) saying to meet him in the woods at 8:30, and some other sexual things in TEXT fro his number. her dad still thinks im behinds this, but he doesnt know my girlfriend in her hand writting recorder the whole text conversations from HIS number not mine. and also he wrote on the order i text her 14000 times a month, and that a lie becuase those are shared texts from BOTH of us. and he said on the order i control her everymove, which aswell is a lie, yes we have a very close relationship, but no, i give her the room to make her own dicisions. and i have love letters and journals as proof of our strong relationship, and how good i am to her in HER hand writting.

So, my question is, what should i do? will i still get the permanent order if i prove my case? and what should i do about the perjury? thank you!

The entire situation sounds out of control.

If you were to show that lies were made and whatever other helpful info you have, a court would very likely end that order.