PLEASE HELP ME FIND ANSWERS!!!!

[Hulahulachica]

Ive posted my question twice and it appears to be the only one no one is responding to!!!!! Even suggestions are welcome------comments----ideas----ANYTHING!!!!!

maybe post again and get it toward the top??

My situation. January 2007 this woman from my husbands past calls up to let him know that her daughter might be his. It taken her 31 years to let my husband know. They took the test and came back postive, that the daughter was his. This part is fine for me, I have no problem. The fact is this woman knowningly knew that my husband is married, decided to have an affair with my husband. My youngest son found out and decided to tip me off, that there was more going on then just them two discussing the new discovery of a 31 year old daughter. The affair went on for about 4 months, best to my knowledge. I confronted them. My husband ended the realtionship and we have been trying to work things out. It has been a year since then and this woman is constantly writing things about me on a website. Is there any case I can bring against her for mental stress on me and my kids. I do have evidence on things she has written. It is bad enough that the husband could do this, and for the wife to figure out if he is worth fighting for,but for any women to have to put up with the mistress constantly keeping the wound open, is wrong. I am not a child and will refuse to respond back to her in a childish name calling game. I want a way to let her know I mean business and for her to move on with her life and get out of mine. I want to heal in peace! There should be something we can do, we are the victims. Desperately needing closure, before she push the wrong button.

[Xena]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

My situation. January 2007 this woman from my husbands past calls up to let him know that her daughter might be his. It taken her 31 years to let my husband know. They took the test and came back postive, that the daughter was his. This part is fine for me, I have no problem. The fact is this woman knowningly knew that my husband is married, decided to have an affair with my husband. My youngest son found out and decided to tip me off, that there was more going on then just them two discussing the new discovery of a 31 year old daughter. The affair went on for about 4 months, best to my knowledge. I confronted them. My husband ended the realtionship and we have been trying to work things out. It has been a year since then and this woman is constantly writing things about me on a website. Is there any case I can bring against her for mental stress on me and my kids. I do have evidence on things she has written. It is bad enough that the husband could do this, and for the wife to figure out if he is worth fighting for,but for any women to have to put up with the mistress constantly keeping the wound open, is wrong. I am not a child and will refuse to respond back to her in a childish name calling game. I want a way to let her know I mean business and for her to move on with her life and get out of mine. I want to heal in peace! There should be something we can do, we are the victims. Desperately needing closure, before she push the wrong button.

You can try filing for a restraining order. Or, if the things being posted are untrue and can be proven to be, you might be able to sue for libel, slander or defamation. Check with a local attorney to see what your best option is.