court marriage as per rules of indian government

[gavs24jan]

hi

I m in luv with my frnd and want to marry him. We two r in luv for last two years, but we two belong to different castes and in my family i dont think anyone will allow for this relationship, besides they r looking for a guy not less than an IAS Officer for me to get married and they r planning to get me married by this or next winter positively, till now they dont know
anything about us, they only know that he is my best friend.

Regarding his family, they wont create much problem but finally will accept us. My boyfrnd has just started his career and according to him, he want to get settled before marriage, so that he can fulfill all my wishes and can give me the best of the life......,really he loves me a lot.

But as my parents r planning for my marriage, we r planning to get married(court marriage), but we two have decided that we wont disclose this to our parents and when they\'ll talk about my marriage, then i\'ll tell them about him and we\'ll wait for there consent, but if in any case they wont allow us together then we\'ll disclose them about our court marriage.

Earlier we decided not to go against our parents, but will not get married to someone else if not with each other. Now to avoid the unbearable circumstances we have decided so. We dont know what\'s the procedure for court marriage, and have also heard that after 15 days of the court marriage, they send a letter to the boy\'s as well as the girl\'s home that
r the two living together or not......if it is so then this again will create trouble.......

what should we do???????????????
we don\'t want to hurt our parents, but on the other part we can\'t live without each other.

Plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz guys help us. we really do need ur help. Plzzzzzzzzzz do revert back with ur responses.
Thank

[randalljd]

It is not illegal for you two to do what you wish.

It may be that a long hard talk with all of the family is best at this point.