How to take father's name off of the birth certificate

[messyjessi]

Originally Posted by Unregistered Wow. How many years has it been that you've been at this? You'd be much better off spending your time getting an education so you can communicate like a human being instead of a neanderthal. This "should have" blame game serves no purpose. The child is here now. We have to live in the reality that is here and now and stop living in "should have" land. The only thing you accomplish with your ridiculous responses is to show the world how psychologically damaged you are.

then she needs to think next time she decides to lay down and spread her legs. she may be stuck with her partner for the next 18 yrs and there wont be anything she can do about it.

Originally Posted by Unregistered People seem to be under the deluded impression that if they stick their head in the sand, the world ceases to exist. Just because he's "a danger" does not negate the fact thatt he is biologically the child's father, and thus, his name will always be on the father's birth certificate. A person's life circumstances do not trump legal vital records. They exist to keep track of lineage, among other things. So, your friend cannot arbitrarily change the birth certificate simply because the guy may have a hinge or two loose. Names on birth certificates have nothing whatsoever to do with a person's proclivities toward violence, or their character. It has to do with blood lineage. That will never change.

I think you need to wake up an stop living in a fantasy world weather or not he donated the sperm does not make him the father nor have rights I'm in my 20s an am in the process of taking him off due to his dangerous behavior to put it lightly.

Originally Posted by Unregistered I think you need to wake up an stop living in a fantasy world weather or not he donated the sperm does not make him the father nor have rights I'm in my 20s an am in the process of taking him off due to his dangerous behavior to put it lightly.

Unfortunately, some of you cannot read. That, or you lack the maturity to deal with facts that happen to fit your particular emotional status (read: childish). This happens to be worldLAWdirect.com. Not worldwe'llchangetherulestosuityoudirect.com. There are times when your feelings or opinions just do not matter, and interpretation of the law, which is what this site is about, happens to be one of them. Try Lifetime.com

I think that some of the responses to the question are totally rude and out of line. We all make mistakes. People change, my son's father was absolutly great until I was about 8 months pregnant, then he got involved with drugs. He had a successful business and lost it. I was not aware of the drug use until my son was about 6 months old and over time he started to became violent and angry so I left when my son was 1. Stop making comments to people you do not know about spreading legs and assuming everyone this happens to is just dumb and irresponsible. That is not very mature of you. You don't know their situation.
As far as the birth certificate issue, I can totally understand WANTING to take someone off of it, but like a few other people have stated that is not possible. I would suggest going to court and getting full custody, if he is really a loser (like he sounds), perhaps he will just not show up and will not get visitation rights. I'm not sure, as I am in the same situation and not sure what to do either. Good luck.

Originally Posted by Unregistered then she shouldnt have had this child with him if he was such a danger. she chose him, shes stuck with him wether she wants to be or not

That is bull **** I am going through the same thing. I didn't know he was like that then he got into drugs and stuff and completely changed. He became abusive and tried to kill us so you have no right to say that. Nobody chooses for that to happen sometimes it just happens

Originally Posted by Unregistered I think that some of the responses to the question are totally rude and out of line. We all make mistakes. People change, my son's father was absolutly great until I was about 8 months pregnant, then he got involved with drugs. He had a successful business and lost it. I was not aware of the drug use until my son was about 6 months old and oUver time he started to became violent and angry so I left when my son was 1. Stop making comments to people you do not know about spreading legs and assuming everyone this happens to is just dumb and irresponsible. That is not very mature of you. You don't know their situation. As far as the birth certificate issue, I can totally understand WANTING to take someone off of it, but like a few other people have stated that is not possible. I would suggest going to court and getting full custody, if he is really a loser (like he sounds), perhaps he will just not show up and will not get visitation rights. I'm not sure, as I am in the same situation and not sure what to do either. Good luck.

Thank you I was reading these and I'm going through the same thing and a lot of people were making me feel like crap. I didn't know my ex was like that till my son was 4 months old and he got into drugs and tried to kill us. I am 21 years old and I am trying to get his name taken off and make it where he can have nothing to do with us when he gets out of prison

I'm sorry but some of your answers are completely incorrect and I know this for absolute certain. 24 years ago I gave birth to a child in California and wasn't entirely sure who the father was. I listed a man whom it could have been. His name was put on my son's birth certificate and I have been trying to have it removed since I left the hospital but to know avail without a DNA. Next to impossible because I had no idea then and still have no idea where this person is.

Peace and God Bless

Originally Posted by Unregistered Wow. How many years has it been that you've been at this? You'd be much better off spending your time getting an education so you can communicate like a human being instead of a neanderthal. This "should have" blame game serves no purpose. The child is here now. We have to live in the reality that is here and now and stop living in "should have" land. The only thing you accomplish with your ridiculous responses is to show the world how psychologically damaged you are.

not blaming anyone. im simply saying the time to decide wether a guy would be good daddy material is BEFORE they decide to lay down and have unprotected sex with him, because once that child is born, youre stuck with that guy for the next 18 yrs wether you want to be or not.if he was that bad she shouldnt have had sex with him. she made that choice now she has to live with it.

Hi just would like to know if the father has lost all parental rights through courts can I take his name off my child's birth certificate?

[sandyclaus]

Originally Posted by Unregistered Hi just would like to know if the father has lost all parental rights through courts can I take his name off my child's birth certificate?

NO. If only it were that easy to just wipe out any familial ties between the child and their father. However, that would be like re-writing history, which just isn't possible.

This man is STILL legally the father of this child. Whether or not he has any rights to the child is irrelevant. The only way to have his name removed from the birth certificate is to have the child legally adopted.