HELP PLEASE

[Paladara]

I am a mother of a beautiful girl who is turning four, I was only with her father for a year and he was extremly abusive I left the situation he was jailed and din't her or see him for 3 1/2 yrs. He clled Christmas 07 wnting to see her nd sid he changed, i thought of her and ws scared to deth so i let him see her. he did and looked like he hd changed we got bck together and then the abuse resumed he emotionlly nd pyscologiclly bused me as well as my daughter. I got DYP or CPS involved and left the sitution once again, now he wants to take me to court to be reconized s the father

1) I can not contest him being on the birth certificate

and he wants access rights to her

2) we re contesting

CPS is involved nd will recomend the court deny him access to our daughter as he is a life threating risk for my daughter s well as myself, thier are other professionals that want to voice thier opinion in denying him access

I would never put in down that without drugs and ggressive behavior he's not good i loved him but i don't know him anymore and he resents me for going to jail and his plan according to CPs ws to take the one thing that makes me whole.

do you think with the testimony of CPS and other professionals s well s police records he would be denied access? I m terrified of wht he would do to my daughter without me or nyone around please HELP ME PLEASEEE

[tbyte]

Yes, the testimony of CPS, coupled with his prior convictions, should carry a lot of weight with the court.
I can't imagine any judge would want to be in a position where they acted against the recommendation of CPS and then, God forbid, something bad happened to the child.
But their are some a lot of stupid judges and magistrates in our family court system, so it is always a roll of the dice.

i agree with tbyte I think you have enough, I do not believe the court will put you down for trying to have her father involved, they may ask you why you did it but I think they will look kindly on the fact that once you saw danger you left it and now your trying to do whats best CPS is pro-both parents, so if it's thier recomendation to deny access becuase of the risk I as well can't see a judge saying okay, however he may get supervised, but even that may be a risk if you and the child are scared keep your chin up it looks like you have a lot on your side and the fact that your not putting him down says alot.....

CPS is great to testify the most he'll get is super if anything

[Paladara]

thank you for your ADVISE i guess super is the worst but i feel bad to say i wouldnt want that either she is to young to voice her opinions but shes scared to for things i wasnt around for forget what she heard him emontionally and psychologiclly abusing me and her he is soo young and does need counseling i have no disrespect for him i'm not like that i'm just trying to save me daughter becuse he's not safe with her alone...i know guys its serious accusation but CPS was there one tim he threatened her life