WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO GIVE UP MY PARENTAL RIGHTS?

Originally Posted by lafw WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO GIVE UP MY PARENTAL RIGHTS? THIS CHILD DOES NOT KNOW ME AS HER FATHER SOMEONE ELSE HAS FILLED THOSE SHOES AND I DO NOT WISH TO DIRUPT HER LIFE.

That is a hard choice to make and I believe an selfless one. Just make sure that she always knows how to contact you in the future.

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Originally Posted by Unregistered Children are not leverage and deserve to have as many people as possible to love and support them. If parents who are split spent half as much time planning to be a positive role model as they do planning on how to screw the other parent, this world would be a much better place.

Hello !!!!!

Yes I agree at this point that the children are very delicate and what ever they have in their mind they keep it and take it seriously. So its better to keep children away from the parental issues.

thanks

He/She is on virtually every page of every post saying the same crap.
In his/her opinion, we are all horrible people and you have no alternatives. (Look through the various posts and you will see that Tbyte has spent hours posting the same crap over and over again and yet has NO CLUE what he/she is talking about. He/she just states.. NO.. you do anything. keep your kid.. blah blah blah blah.
He/she is a complete and utter moron and needs to get a life.

I know someone that was taken advantage of just so that a chick could get pregnant by him. Told him she couldn't get pregnant after druging him so that he couldn't stop her and then he woke up being told they had sex. Then comes back says she's pregnant. He found out from her friend she set him up hoping if she was pregnant he would be with her. He told her he did not want another child as soon S he found out they had sex and she lied to him set him up and now he has a child that he never wanted with a crazy woman. He wants to give up his rights because he was raped just so she could get pregnant without his consent to sex in the first place.

Originally Posted by Unregistered I know someone that was taken advantage of just so that a chick could get pregnant by him. Told him she couldn't get pregnant after druging him so that he couldn't stop her and then he woke up being told they had sex. Then comes back says she's pregnant. He found out from her friend she set him up hoping if she was pregnant he would be with her. He told her he did not want another child as soon S he found out they had sex and she lied to him set him up and now he has a child that he never wanted with a crazy woman. He wants to give up his rights because he was raped just so she could get pregnant without his consent to sex in the first place.

It would be interesting to learn how a man can perform while drugged up so heavily that he does not remember having sex.

For a woman, nothing is really required for her to "have sex while drugged". She is equipped with an opening that allows for penetration.

The male - on the other hand - is equipped with a penis that must be stimulated and erect. It must also be capable of ejecting sperm. I highly doubt your pal was capable of accomplishing such a feat while drugged so heavily he had no idea he even had sex.

I think you might be telling a tall tale here just to get out of fatherhood.

He can petition to give up his rights but he will not get out of the financial obligation to pay child support. All giving up rights accomplishes is to teach the child they're not wanted and to have no say in any decisions whatsoever regarding the child's life.

yea here is the problem wat if the baby mama dont want u in the childs life? Thats the problem too

[Friend In Court]

Originally Posted by Unregistered she can not accept full responsibility? she does not want the child around me at all. she is getting married next august and the child knows him as being her father. can i relingish my rights over to her and she can decide if she wants her future husband to adopt?

IF she marries and IF the future husband wishes to adopt, at that time you may speak with both of them about their doing a stepparent adoption. It will require the desire of both parents and convincing a judge the stepfather is willing to assume lifetime role as father with all the obligations that means including rights to inherit from his estate.

The matter is handled through the courts with a termination of parental rights for which you will need to be represented by a lawyer. The ramifications of giving up all parental rights to a child are grave, so that is why the law requires one have the advantage of counsel.

It is premature at this point to talk of relinquishing parental rights to a future stepfather since they are not married yet. You do not mention the age of the child nor how long this man has been in the child's life so it is hard to predict how an adoption petition will be received if the marriage is a new one. But relinquishment of parental rights will not be approved until AFTER the marriage, not before.