How to help my 17 year old son (and his 16 year old girlfriend)

[sharonmcdonell]

The parent's of my son's girlfriend detest him and have forbidden her to see him. So, my son and his girlfriend have been sneaking to see each other behind her parent's backs. Up to this point, we have not allowed him to bring her to our home because her parents are against their relationship. However, recently, her father told me that he would call the police if he finds my son on his property, even though the daughter has invited him onto the property. My two questions are:
1) What charges can the father press against my son if he finds my son on his property?
2) What charges can the father press against us, if we decide to allow my son to bring his girlfriend here, since it is very unsafe for him to be on her property? (The parents work every night until 7pm or later so it is an easy place for them to be alone. I don't work, and I'm home, so I could insist they stay on the same level as me, etc.)

They can file trespass charges if they asked him not to be there.

It is not strictly forbidden to have her come to your home but given the strong desire of the parents you might be opening yourself to problems if anything goes wrong.

They seem ready to lash out.