Girlfriend Being Abused By Her Alcoholic Parents

[Lawson]

I am in Kentucky and my girlfriend is always being abused and neglected my her mother and and her boyfriend. She came running over here last night because her parents were brutally abusing her and she currently has a bruised eye. Her parents will not let her out of the house and they will not let her come in contact with anyone. These I understand are Child Endangerment, Imprisonment, Neglect, and Abuse. I called the police after they dragged her back into her house and when they arrived, I received a message saying to call the police because her parents were beating her. The police did nothing about this and I don't think that justice was served and I believe they didn't do their job. She is currently 16--. She has a 1 year old child and I don't appreciate her being abused, especially in front of a baby. I need some kind of legal action to be taken, but I really need help with this matter. Please help me? If you want to know anymore about this situation, then please ask and I will be more than glad enough to share with you what you need to know. Just as long as she is not with those abusive parents anymore.

[sunlover]

This girl needs to talk to a counselor at school they are mandated reporters

[Lawson]

Originally Posted by sunlover This girl needs to talk to a counselor at school they are mandated reporters

Sorry, but I forgot to mention that she isn't in school any longer. Her parents pulled her out so that she could take care of the baby instead of them.

[sunlover]

Then she can call the National Hotline for abuse at 1-800-A-A-CHILD. Are you the rapist who got her pregnant?

"Are you the rapist who got her pregnant?"

Really now, what is constructive about that sentence, and you certainly are assuming a lot. The OP could be a teenager for all we know. Your comment was way out of line and completely unnecessary.

That her parents pulled her out of school to take care of her own child is not abusive. If a teen is old enough to have sex and produce a baby, she's old enough to raise one. As she should. Babies are not dolls.

Call the State Police in your area, and advise them of what is going on, and that the local police were no help. This girl's rights are being violated if the local police are allowing her to be abused. A black eye should have been serious warning for them.

[sunlover]

Any attention brought on to this girl could backfire into his face if he is Father. She was clearly 15 when she got pregnant and without knowing the state its hard to say much about age of consent. Except its not 15! Furthermore even if hes just 16 or 17 himself he might still face charges. This means lifetime registration as sex offender. I also wonder why Police ignored bruises and like? I feel this case may be more about them two playing house than anything else. Considering she got herself pregnant at 15 locking her up is not bad idea. By locking her up i mean not allowing her to roam free! There is much this young man isnt telling us I suspect and I further suspect his motives are for her safety but for his pleasures. I could be dead wrong but a simple call to number I gave will get ball rolling.

[Lawson]

I do understand what all you are saying and for the most part I agree. Oh, and no, I am not the person who got her pregnant. She had a child before I got with her and I learned that she was raped by her ex. He was a drug abuser. I do have to disagree however when you stated "There is much this young man isn't telling us I suspect." I do understand your view on why you would think this, but I am telling you everything. There is no way that I would be able to progress without the whole truth being spoken and I hope you understand that I know this. Like I said, anything you need to know, then just ask me and I will not hesitate to inform you.

[sunlover]

She needs to use number I provided end story! There is nothing you can do and nothing that will force parents to allow you contact.

[Lawson]

Originally Posted by sunlover She needs to use number I provided end story! There is nothing you can do and nothing that will force parents to allow you contact.

I know, but now I need to know how to give her the number without her parents knowing because they have been monitoring her e-mail(she sneaks wireless internet from us). Also, I just read your comment saying something like us playing house or something of that matter. I don't use her for personal gain and I must admit that if I have her taken out of the house, then it will be more of a "I won't be able to see her at all" situation. I am trying to do this for her because I am tired of crying every night thinking about her getting harmed and worrying that she could end up injured or worse...I really must thank you all for the advice and I was wondering if you all would be kind enough to keep offering ideas and possibilities for me. I really want her away from those two. They only like to abuse her for their own amusement it seems. I can't stand it.

[sunlover]

Be smart stop the sneaking wireless etc will blow up in your face. Anyone can make that call including you!