Violating your own restraining order?

[Marcostylo74]

If I have a "no contact" domestic violence restraining order against me
yet the other party constantly calls me for conversation, leaves me voice
mails, text messages, and picture mail, isn't that a violation of their own
order?

Yes it is.

Keep a record of that and show it to the judge. The person cannot be contacting you and at the same time seek such an order.

for how long is a restraining order good for in time

usually it is dated...check the order

and then they have to reapply if they wish

otherwise it can be good until lifted