have to give up custody of adopted child

[stressed]

I am new to this site. Does anyone have any kind, constructive advice on unadopting a child. we adopted her from Ukraine. We never formally had any court case or anything here in the U.S. I would like any advice thanks, Stressed

"Un" adopt? Please elaborate.

I am going through the same situation with an adopted child age 13 with severe RAD I am not going to repeate all the same stories that everyone else has because lets face it these children are all the same! They lie and cheat and generally ruin any life they come in contact with. Her is my question, I was told by Children and Families that if you give back one adopted child and there are more adopted children in the house they will be removed as well. Is this true?????

It's unlikely anyone who wishes to rid themselves of a child in desperate need of love, understanding, security and comfort, all of which the child was deprived of, which in turn resulted in causing their behavioral and emotional problems, will garner any kind, sympathetic words of advice.

Adopting is a serious undertaking and children do not come with "good" or "bad" stamped on them. If you cannot take the bad with the good, don't adopt.

These poor children had the misfortune to be taken from one bad adult environment only to be placed in another.