pa what to do about getting the short end of the stick?

the cheating husband left me and the kids in pa he moved to ct. in with the girl stuck with him at first moved in the her parents house. i have to leave the house we own to move in with mel because it was going up for sale. the boys and i moved over two countys. now he is taking me to court for doing so. (dick head). so can i take the custdy court to here? or does it have to stay in the court that is doing it?
oh my ex slept with the judges niece before the girl that he left us to live with.


I get stuck with 4 credit cards, car payment, one house payment and a act 91 payment on it.
but yet i have two set of utilitys on my house and rental. yet he wants me to pay him out after the sell of the main house. all he has is one credit card and all of the money he inherared from his dad two yrs ago.
what the heck? what can i do i got rid of my old att and im looking for a new one and they don't want my case because of the ex sleeping with the judges niece.