my BF's soon to be ex is stalking me

[angryather]

I need some help here. My BF's soon to be exwife, (they have been separated for 4 years) won't stop stalking me on the internet. everywhere I put my real name she finds it and starts making comments to him about my activities. Some of which are old posts and innocuous things that I did years before I even knew him. When I get mad he tells me that if WE want to have a cat fight, leave him out of it. I think he is playing games with me. Furthermore, I have had to block her from calling my cell phone. I have to pay $5.00 a month just to block her. Also I have had to set my myspace profile to private because of her, her friends, and her daughter, who is too young to be on myspace to begin with. She is always talking crap about me on the internet. it has gotten to the point that I just stopped looking at all her posts because it was upsetting me. She wont let him go. He tells her all about our arguments, and things about me I would rather keep secret. I have even had to call the police,(she lives in a different state and there was nothing they could do) because she, and their son, called me and threatened to harm me. we have been together for over two years and I don't know what I can do to make her stop. I HATE having to hide on the internet, but if I don't everything is up for discussion with him. He acts like I am the one in the wrong if I even try to tell her, or their children off, his kids are 13 and 19. I just want to clarify that I do NOT go out of my way to harass, or slander them by name. However, she obviously does not feel the same, and he just wont be bothered enough to tell her to back off. Anybody have any ideas as to what I can do to make her stop. I really love my BF he is a wonderful man, and I don't want to lose him. Somebody please help me.

[tbyte]

Perhaps the problem is that you are having an affair with a married man who is a jerk.
You might want to solve that problem first, and then maybe the other issues will take care of themselves.