just some help required

im 31 as of now, i was with a woman 3 times or so when i was 20. she got pregnant. at first she said she would abort the pregnancy cause of our ages and all that. then she said a few weeks later she would go through with it. however knowing i was an idiot at that time in my life she said, she knows i dont want nothing to do with it and would never bring it up...as long as i i never interfered , i agreed. she met a new guy and he brought her up as his own and it actually was the best thing for her(mackenzie)... a few years pass and they break up and she wants me to start paying and this. she is married with a new man, they get paid very well and allen (ex) is still there in mackenzies life as well...so 3 other resources of payment. she wants money and does not want mackenzie to know who her real grandmother is and my sisters are her aunts, but she wants that kept quiet as well.i know face value i look like the dead beat guy, i get that...but its weird how she seems that the only reason she wants contact with me is for money...any info?

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im 31 as of now, i was with a woman 3 times or so when i was 20. she got pregnant. at first she said she would abort the pregnancy cause of our ages and all that. then she said a few weeks later she would go through with it. however knowing i was an idiot at that time in my life she said, she knows i dont want nothing to do with it and would never bring it up...as long as i i never interfered , i agreed. she met a new guy and he brought her up as his own and it actually was the best thing for her(mackenzie)... a few years pass and they break up and she wants me to start paying and this. she is married with a new man, they get paid very well and allen (ex) is still there in mackenzies life as well...so 3 other resources of payment. she wants money and does not want mackenzie to know who her real grandmother is and my sisters are her aunts, but she wants that kept quiet as well.i know face value i look like the dead beat guy, i get that...but its weird how she seems that the only reason she wants contact with me is for money...any info?

You do not have to give any money until a court orders you to. If she wants any money from you wait until she files with the court and has you legally served with papers. Once she does that, be sure to deny paternity and ask for a COURT ORDERED DNA test.