the father walk away.

my 40 years old bf from netherland wants me to do an abortion but i can not do that because i dont think there is not any good reason to kill my baby. he is not a young boy who can not responsible one baby, has his own company so i want to keep my baby but i can not take care of him by my self because i am too poor. i want only my baby's hospital cost until he is born in next few months. his food, his baby sitter cost and his school. not so much to pay that in thailand so cheap. can the lawyer do anything about this? we are not married.

Originally Posted by from thailand my 40 years old bf from netherland wants me to do an abortion but i can not do that because i dont think there is not any good reason to kill my baby. he is not a young boy who can not responsible one baby, has his own company so i want to keep my baby but i can not take care of him by my self because i am too poor. i want only my baby's hospital cost until he is born in next few months. his food, his baby sitter cost and his school. not so much to pay that in thailand so cheap. can the lawyer do anything about this? we are not married.

its your decision to wether have an abortion, keep the baby, or place it for adoption. he has no say in the matter, because number one, its your body, your decision, and two, he has no rights untill paternity establishes him as the father, if its shown he is the father, he will be legally obligated to pay child support, he will have no say in that matter either