Re: Taking child to Hong Kong

I didn't ask for critics in my life style choices or in relationships, I asked for intellectual legal advise on a very personal important matter and besides money, you didn't bring up any other real valid points. Money isn't always the winning factor and the person making the most money isn't always the most suitable parent. And though it maybe hard for you to believe (since you don't know all the facts) but I am thinking about my son in this decision and am only asking so I can find out all my options.

So, unless you are going to give useful, non bias, advice, please refrain for commenting further, on anyone's posts.

Sorry you didn't like the answer, deary, but it was legal advice. That you took such great offense to it, and that you went so far as to close the thread, more than proves a nerve was hit.

When you put your life out on the internet, put on your big girl pants and be prepared for words you might not want to read. It's time to toughen up a bit sweetie.

The questions posed to you are valid. How did you meet this man from Hong Kong? Have you actually met and formed a real life relationship?

These are questions a judge WILL ask you and WILL want to know. They speak to your stability. You already don't have a job or a home of your own. The judge WILL take that into consideration as well.

Further, you are not moving a short distance away. You are moving a great distance away. That will also make a huge difference.

I'm sorry to tell you differently, but money makes the world go 'round, and I'll bet you're receiving some sort of child support aren't you? It IS about money. It takes money to raise and support a child in case you didn't realize that. You can't clothe and feed a kid on love and good intentions.

Stop being so childishly defensive. If you don't want people making comments about your lifestyle, don't post it all over the internet. It's apparent you can't handle the truth.

And so what gives you the right to do this?? Do you own your child? Does the father have no rights based on your belief? Give your head a shake..........this is NOT ABOUT YOU!! This is all about 100% what is in the best interests of your child!!! Get over it and on with it.........your child's father is just as important as you are. You do not make those rules!!

Money may not be the deciding factor in who raises the kids but it's right up at the top of the list. Money is the number one first priority in having and raising children.

I know women like you believe that having children entitles you to everyone else's money, but you are expected to financially support your own children so us taxpayers aren't burdened with that job.

The person making the money may not always be the most suitable parent, but living in abject poverty isn't exactly the ideal situation to raise children in either.

Sadly, there are plenty of kids living with mothers who take the same mental stance as you. They're cold, hungry, neglected, often times abused and miserable. Even sadder, these kids's fathers were the better suited parent in every way, including the financial resources to raise their kids but some twisted minded judge thought it was better for these children to remain with their mother.