Husband got the short end

I still can't believe what has happened to me. At my divorce I agreed to take on All the debt because I was told she did not have the income to take it. This was a monthly payment of $1200 alone. We all stipulated to child support and medical care, The only thing that was not agreed to in court was spousal maintenance. Then two weeks later I got that judgment in the mail. The judge ordered me to pay her $6400.00 a month leaving me with $100.00 per week to live on. Plus her lawyer asked for 7 years of spousal and the judge gave her 16 years and i get to pay her back spousal. Plus on top of this she kept bringing orders to show cause in regards to the children that all came back unfounded. by doing this she chipped away all of my visitation with my children. So now I have no money and no kids. I have brought this issue back to court trying to get it fixed but I swear the judge just has it out for me. He made comment on the stand about "holding court on thanksgiving at my ex's parents house and he can rule on visitation over desert." I am a officer of the law and have been so for 20 years, I am a great dad and raised my kids while she sat on the couch. I have now paid an appeals attorney who is ready to go and says she has a strong case but it's been a year and a half and the judge still hasn't signed the divorce. So I can't even get my appeal off the ground. I am going to starve to death before I get a handle on this. Any advice.

[jlvernwald]

are there other judges in your court there is a way i forget what papers or whatever but to request a different judge or you can do depending how long it has been motion to reconsider.

I will have to see if my lawyer can request that but I don't think that we can.... He has been trying to starve me out for will over a year and a half now.