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Old Feb 10th, 2010, 07:22 AM   #1
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My ex is very bitter towards me and has been since the separation back in 2001. He has taken me back and fourth to court filing frivolous motions. The last six years he has filed over a dozen motions against me. First he filed a motion for our son to change schooling to one closer to his house in KS we reside in MO, then he filed a motion to change custody requesting primary custody, he filed a motion for us to have homestudy, he filed a motion to increase his parenting time, he filed two motions to reduce his parenting time and at the last minute he changed his mind. Each one of these times the cases have been unfounded. Just recently he filed a motion to decrease child support. I'm currently unemployed and can't afford to pay for our son childcare so I haven't enrolled our son in childcare for this school year. So, now he is requesting the his support be decrease. I'm fine with this. But, now him and his attorney have added future summer camp fees that our son has never attended nor was it ever discussed they we would change summer camp. He is also in violation of the court order by enrolling our son in a home daycare, taking him to counseling and doctor appointments all without consulting with me prior to any of these events. I have spent a fortune on legal fees and I'm still paying for back attorney fees. He "thrives" on this and he isn't being rationale. What can I do to stop these frivolous and harassing court cases? My lawyer suggested writing a letter to the court and explaining what is going on. What else can I do legally?
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You can neatly compile the entire history and file a motion asking for sanctions and costs for abuse of process, frivolous filings etc.

Show step by step how the actions have been frivolous and thrown out. Make sure the judge see the entire picture.

At a minimum it will put the court on notice.
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Old Feb 10th, 2010, 11:13 AM   #3
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Firstly, if you are currently unemployed then there is no need for the child to even be in daycare.

Secondly, except for a couple of his petitions, they aren't frivolous in nature. Obviously this man has some money to throw around, and cares not about how he spends it.

If you are going this alone, that is your first mistake. You need an attorney to represent you. Your attorney can, more articulately, describe the level and number of lawsuits filed by your ex is steadfastly increasing (it's appalling our courts allow this type of behavior, wasting everyone's time), and ask that the harassment stop.

He's obviously lost all of his motions if he is still taking you to court. For instance, he apparently did not get either primary custody or increased parenting time.

Yes, it's unfortunate that people use the legal system to vent their bitter emotions at an ex, but the courts seem oblivious to it. It's too bad the U.S. court system would take a few lessons from other countries, such as the Bahamas. This man would have probably been jailed for contempt and broken his bank account by now if he were using their court system like that.
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A dozen in 6 years? That would be a dream in my boyfriends world. In 5 years the state has allowed his ex to file almost 300 motions. Yes, three HUNDRED. The court has records showing she is mentally ill, he has custody of the children, yet she can drag him to court almost every week. The courts have already given her all they had in the divorce except the house he and the children live in and a used car. She has all his military retirement, half his current pay, a new house and car, she doesn't need to work. All his vacation time is used for court. When he has appealed the abuse of procedure, the judge was unsympathetic. I did not believe things like this could happen- but I'm seeing it with my own eyes. So much for a fair system.
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Your story is absolute proof of how archaic and lax our U.S. Family Court system is. No court should ever entertain that many motions. It is clear 295 of them are frivolous and made only to harass the other parent.
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A dozen in 6 years? That would be a dream in my boyfriends world. In 5 years the state has allowed his ex to file almost 300 motions. Yes, three HUNDRED. The court has records showing she is mentally ill, he has custody of the children, yet she can drag him to court almost every week. The courts have already given her all they had in the divorce except the house he and the children live in and a used car. She has all his military retirement, half his current pay, a new house and car, she doesn't need to work. All his vacation time is used for court. When he has appealed the abuse of procedure, the judge was unsympathetic. I did not believe things like this could happen- but I'm seeing it with my own eyes. So much for a fair system.
Vexatious litigation is legal action which is brought, regardless of its merits, solely to harass or subdue an adversary. It may take the form of a primary frivolous lawsuit or may be the repetitive, burdensome, and unwarranted filing of meritless motions in a matter which is otherwise a meritorious cause of action. Filing vexatious litigation is considered an abuse of the judicial process and may result in sanctions against the offender.

Family court can and will place sanctions upon request to someone who can be proven as a Vexatious litigator. This typically applies to someone who is pro se.
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Does the Vexatious litigation only apply if everything that is filed is towards you? My exhusband and I have been in court four main times in four years along with contempt and child support hearings steaming off of those.

In addition to that his mother filed a greivance against the judge, they filed an appeal after he lost custody, they filed a rule 9 and 11 (I believe these are the right numbers, my attorney handled both), and they had my attorney investigated for ethical practice, again I don't know if that is the correct verbage but she had to go through an investigation, and his gf filed a complaint through DSS and we had to go through an investigation with them.

All filings have been dismissed, DSS even said that they would testify on my behalf if he brought another case forward. My attorney said that we cannot file anything regarding harrassment because these filings have not all been directed towards me. Is there anything that I can do? This has really become ridiculous, and I could've put both of my children through college with the money that has been spent. I am a good mother and he is a good father, unfortunately though he keeps doing this for reasons that are beyond my understanding. His attorney is no longer representing him and we heard through the grapevine that he just retained a new one, which means something new is about to be filed. Please let me know if I have any way to protect myself from this continuing.
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Rule 11 of the Federal Rules of Civil Procedure, adopted in one form or another by all the states provides for sanctions, usually monetary, against a party who files frivolous, groundless motions and wastes the court's time and the other party's resources.

There is no way to protect one from filing meritless motions or litigations -- except to make them pay when they have no merit. Represented by a lawyer, the lawyer should know better. It will be up to your attorney to be vigilant and merciless requesting fines, sanctions and whatever other remedies there are at law in your state. Barring from the courts runs against Constitutional guarantees but one can sure make it expensive when the motions have no merit.
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