so scared!

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hi,
ive recently had my baby boy who was 3 weeks prem n only weighed 3lb 13.my pregnancy wasnt the best me and his farther had problems and i had a bad pregnancy because i have lupus and the stress but i gave his dad another chance even after he didnt come to any scans and the one he did take me to he asked for the petrol money
So anyway we moved into a house i had sorted for me and our son and everything was good but after our son was born by c-section his dad expected me to still cook clean and take care of him totally including looking after our son all day breast feeding and gettin up in the night while he went to collage.hes never paid a penny to the house or his son and by the 3rd week of bein home id had enough so told him to leave.He got angry and started pulling my hair and chucking me about while i was holding our son he then started kicking in the door while i was infront of it with our son in my arms!then he shoved me on the floor ripping open my wound.
I didnt call the police because i thought it was a one off but he came back with his dad 2days later kicking in the door again shouting for his things.so i rang them then because i was scared.but i did tell his dad tht day they cud see alfie but not that day because he was upset from the shouting and banging.i do have a whitness to this as my uncle had seen them and come across asking what they wanted .
my sons dad didnt even ask to see his son then it was his dad and since that day ive not heard a thing off any of there family or him they havent even asked how our son is.
The other day i got a solicitors letter statein i had stopped him seeing his son which i havent said at all and now im really angry because i havent.i want my son to see his dad but it scares me about hi temper if he crys and he carnt stop it will he hit him like he did with me holding my son?
my son is my world and i dont want him urt in any way but i know he needs to see his dad but his dad has said he wasnts him every weekend all day both days and every night after 6pm my son is only 1 month old and i will not allow him out after 6pm and im breast feeding so all day and nights on a weekend carnt happen but i feel unreasonable saying this .I know when i say this he will try for full custody could any one help me in telling me what rights he will have to my son. i dont want to stop him seeing him but i carnt have my son taken off me like he has threatened because of my illness which ive managed this far and if i was so bad would he have left our son wiv me all this time??
sorry ive rambled on but this is the first time ive told anyone bout it i feel stupid for what he did 2 me ..... thanks!

You should seek legal if you cannot afford a lawyer if he files.

And got to the police and ask for a restraining order against hiim or a keep-away order due to the outbursts you describe here. He will not get custody and maybe not even visitation with that kind of behavior.

I am sure World Law could help you deal with any filings that may be needed. Email them if need be on their home page.