Unwed father, unfit mother what are the father's rights

Franklin County Massachusetts

My friend's ex-girlfriend just had a baby less than a month ago. He was there when his son was born and attended all prenatal appointments. He was the happiest new father I have ever seen. The mother took off with the baby before he was even 3 weeks old and was found a week later in a house where cocaine was being used. Both her and the baby tested positive. Child Services is involved and the baby is in foster care. My friend wants his baby, but there seems to be resistance about this.

Prior to the baby's birth both my friend and his ex sat down to work out a plan for joint custody and the plan was to legalize all this through the courts but all this happened before he was able to get it into court.
What can he do and why is it so hard for unwed fathers?


desperate for help
Ma

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He needs to get a lawyer and go to court to establish paternity. He has no rights to the baby until a DNA test/Court order granting such. That will give him the ability to petition to seek custody or visitation.

He needs a lawyer fast as this will get very complicated. Ask your attorney if MAssachusetts is a putative father state so you can get on a registry and the state must contact you before they decide on babys' fate. You have a limited time window to apply to this also.

Is the father's name on the birth certificate? If so, he should file for sole custody. This woman has proven herself a reckless and unfit parent to do that to her own child at such a tender age.

I hope he gets his child back. Good luck to him.

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He needs an attorney to file an emergency order for custody. There may be some resistance since they were unwed. But he shouldn't have much of a problem once he cuts through whatever red tape that may cause to get primary custody.

I hope you check back and let us know how it goes.

My friend have a similar case to the one from Franklin County, MA. My friend is unwed father and his girlfriend is a gambler woman. She is currently working and will be lay off soon due to all the late to work and didn't called in when she's not working; she often didn't come home and spend time at the casino. He is staying home and take care of the few months old baby girl. They both are on the birth certificate of the child.
My question here if she is going to work and being a gambler who that consider her as a unfit mother and does he "unwed father" has a high percentage to take a sole custody of the baby girl? There's bank statement indicated the date and time she went to withdraw fund of the ATM.
Any information respond to these questions will greatly be appreciated. PLEASE HELP!