What can we legally do?

Originally Posted by Unregistered To the most recent poster... You might want to scroll up a bit. The OP came back and gave an update on the situation in April.

she needs to drop the we. theres only dad in this, this is not her child.

Originally Posted by Unregistered she needs to drop the we. theres only dad in this, this is not her child.

She has already had a successful outcome, back in April. I highly doubt she's even come back here for your self righteous "advice".

Originally Posted by Unregistered she needs to drop the we. theres only dad in this, this is not her child.

Actually now that the child's mother has passed away it really is her child. Dad can appoint step-mom to become legal mother/guardian I believe. My aren't we a bitter person?

Originally Posted by Unregistered Actually now that the child's mother has passed away it really is her child. Dad can appoint step-mom to become legal mother/guardian I believe. My aren't we a bitter person?

its NOT HER CHILD unless she adopts. and btw, children are not property and cant be willed.if dad passes away, his family or mom's have a better chance of custody then stepmom does

In terms of the Will... anybody can Will anyone anything. They don't have to be blood related. If the OP wishes to include the child in their Will, they can do so.

Again, this poster has not been back since April of this year and it's pointless to continue to play moral police when it is a legal matter she was inquiring about. Had she wanted moral advice, she'd have written Dear Abby.

Originally Posted by Unregistered In terms of the Will... anybody can Will anyone anything. They don't have to be blood related. If the OP wishes to include the child in their Will, they can do so. Again, this poster has not been back since April of this year and it's pointless to continue to play moral police when it is a legal matter she was inquiring about. Had she wanted moral advice, she'd have written Dear Abby.

a legal matter which was legally NONE of her business.