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[Littleacres]

You could have just for one second thought maybe just maybe there is more then one way for men or women to win a custody battle. there is never just one answer to a problem. Anyway I may not have the extensive vocabulary of tybyt, but i do know what I am talking about, maybe you have never experienced it where you are, but here it is different. And I do not disbute tybyt way of fighting the battle I am just saying don't put all your eggs in one basket

wow you are right on point,, my wife is giving me hell.the system is so unfiar it isnt even a question who`s got the upper hand,but all men hear is how bad we are or what have or havent you done and woman doe have it better a man has to prove that the woman is totally off her gourd all she has to do is say he is and boom the world come crashing in on him. my wife has been tying to set me up every sine i caught her cheating ass her goal is to make me look like iam an angry hateful man and she didnt do anyhting its amazing what i have been thru. i caught her with an unexplain phone bill from a pay phone of over sixty dollar ,, all these thing happen while iam at work.
I came home one night found out she been going to bars but she said she olny been doing it three or four times right iam such a fool i have caught htis owman in so many lies it still baffles me who is this person?


First of all, I HAVE investigated and I KNOW the truth of the situation. A very large (far too large) portion of the women yapping about support ARE INDEED all about the money. Most times the money doesn't even go to the child but is used by the mother for her own selfish needs.
Second of all, you completely and convenienlty took my post entirely out of context and twisted it to suit a woman's view. I specifically mentioned bad fathers AND mothers in my post.
Third, my post was NOT directed at ALL women!!! It was directly posted to ignorant selfish women. But you again twist it to suit your own female agenda.
As for what a man pays for support, a man should only have pay a percentage of support equal to the time he has with the children. If the mother wants to take the child(ren) away from the father then she should have to pay for it.
Fourth, you ask "why is it so hard for a man to stand up and fight for his children?" REALITY of the family court system is why!!!! The Carter of rights and the Family Law Acts (at least here in Canada) specifically stipulate that a mother and father are to be treated 100% equal in custody cases. Yet to this very day when two parents walk into a family court in a custody case the HUGE advantage automatically goes to the parent with breasts. That is a FACT!!!!! Many (far too many) fathers do in fact go broke and do go to the ends of the earth fighting for their children. And what do they get for it?? Every second frikin weekend and a huge support payment. I am one of many, many fathers who fight for equal rights for BOTH mothers and fathers, not just fathers. And I can gaurantee you there are far less women out there willing to fight for fathers rights as there are fathers fighting for the rights of BOTH parents.
When a man is faced with a system that is inherently biased against him regarding his rights as a father and even his own lawyer says "it's the norm for a father to get every second weekend, so just accept it" what else can he do but throw his hands in the air???
Fifth, you decision to send me this in a PM instead of posting it on the public board only proves you have something to hide.[/quote]

Originally Posted by tbyte

He needs to focus on what is best for the children, and he needs to be patient and smart, and he needs support from family and friends.

he has to jmp thru hoops,, bring all his gold to a pile,, walk on water,be christ like it always amazes me. Yes there are some very angry men her i assume hell why not .If anyone had to go thru what some of the men in here including me they would be steaming mad.And yes anger gets you no whee but my god how can a person not be angry when you havent done anyhting to deserve the treatment you recieve.

[tbyte]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

As for what a man pays for support, a man should only have pay a percentage of support equal to the time he has with the children. If the mother wants to take the child(ren) away from the father then she should have to pay for it.

The financial needs of the child are the same, regardless of how much time they spend with their father. I hope you are not suggesting that fathers who have less visitation should pay less support, or that fathers with more visitation should pay more support. The child is not being "leased" by one parent to the other.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN!

Originally Posted by PapaJohn

Since you didn't have the guts to do it in public, where it belonged Little, I'll do it for you...
This is a PM Little sent me and my reply to it.




First of all, I HAVE investigated and I KNOW the truth of the situation. A very large (far too large) portion of the women yapping about support ARE INDEED all about the money. Most times the money doesn't even go to the child but is used by the mother for her own selfish needs.
Second of all, you completely and convenienlty took my post entirely out of context and twisted it to suit a woman's view. I specifically mentioned bad fathers AND mothers in my post.
Third, my post was NOT directed at ALL women!!! It was directly posted to ignorant selfish women. But you again twist it to suit your own female agenda.
As for what a man pays for support, a man should only have pay a percentage of support equal to the time he has with the children. If the mother wants to take the child(ren) away from the father then she should have to pay for it.
Fourth, you ask "why is it so hard for a man to stand up and fight for his children?" REALITY of the family court system is why!!!! The Carter of rights and the Family Law Acts (at least here in Canada) specifically stipulate that a mother and father are to be treated 100% equal in custody cases. Yet to this very day when two parents walk into a family court in a custody case the HUGE advantage automatically goes to the parent with breasts. That is a FACT!!!!! Many (far too many) fathers do in fact go broke and do go to the ends of the earth fighting for their children. And what do they get for it?? Every second frikin weekend and a huge support payment. I am one of many, many fathers who fight for equal rights for BOTH mothers and fathers, not just fathers. And I can gaurantee you there are far less women out there willing to fight for fathers rights as there are fathers fighting for the rights of BOTH parents.
When a man is faced with a system that is inherently biased against him regarding his rights as a father and even his own lawyer says "it's the norm for a father to get every second weekend, so just accept it" what else can he do but throw his hands in the air???
Fifth, you decision to send me this in a PM instead of posting it on the public board only proves you have something to hide.