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[PapaJohn]

I am really getting sick and tired of these ignorant selfish women who think that a man has no rights to his child and these women who keep referring to the kids as THEIR kids and not his..... There's a lot of women out there who seriously need a wake up call.

FATHERS HAVE JUST AS MANY RIGHTS TO THEIR CHILDREN AS MOTHERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unless a father has done something that warrants him not being a part of the child's life then leave the damn guy alone and let him be a part of his child(rens) life.

Also... Get your frikin heads out of the father's wallets!!!!! Far too many women are more worried about how much money they can screw a guy out of and not enough about the well being of their children.

Well I'm sick and tired of sorry men laying down with women, helping produce the child, and then taking off as fast as they can to live their lives while the woman is left to care completly on her own for the child, with absolutely no help whatsoever, and the child is left behind wondering what they did to make their father not be around. Men need to step up and take responsibility instead of making children and still BEING children.

I would hope both are concerned about the kids above all else!!

Both the mother and the father need to have rights to the child. The child needs to be the first concern. I will say that 99.9% of the time you hear about dead beat dads. Believe me there are dead beat moms too.

My son has full custody of my granddaughter. She never wanted this beautiful little girl. She said on more than one occassion that if she could have came up with the money she would have gotten an abortion. She also told people when her grandma asked her what she wanted for Christmas she said "a kick in the stomach and a push down the stairs." My son and her got married and tried to make it work. He or I had the baby more than she did, he would work nights and come home and stay up most of the day with the baby. She did not work. They lived with us and she did not even help around the house. I woke up one night to my granddaughter screaming and found her in the pack and play in her car seat. "Mom" was sound alseep in theri room.

She decided my son's best friend was better so my son told her to leave. The baby stayed with him. They went to court for the divorce and the judge got upset because every time she asked her when and how much she wanted the baby she would not answer her. She was given some visitation and ordered to pay support. They ordered an guardian ad litem and she stated that the baby was better off with Dad. When the visitation was set down she actually asked for less.

She has not seen her daughter since June 19, 2006 and is over $7000 behind in child support. This is do to her. I am not sure that my granddaugher would even reconize her and I know if she saw her daughter out she would not reconize her.

I know there are a lot of dead beat dads my brother was one of them. There are "mothers" that are the same. The sad part is no one knows where she is or how to get in contact with her.

I believ that a child needs two parents but what can you do if one does not want to be a parent? I am proud of my son, he was a wild one until he found out that he was going to be a Daddy. He is a very good Daddy, he would die for her.

i agree with papa john, my husband is a great dad and his ex girlfriend wont even let him see the kids. she is a dancer and does nude modeling and leaves the kids with whoever she can find and meanwhile uses the government to pay her bills and trust me that every last dollar we have is going to our attorney to get these kids out of there.

she even did porn in the home when the kids were there. she is the living example of a dead beat mom

[canstarr]

if that's the fact, why hasn't your husband filed for custody?? if she's doing all this he would have no problem getting his kids.

[angel1964]

Papajohn, I am so happy to hear you say that. My boyfriends ex cheated on him for 10 yrs and when he finally left she thought he owed her something. he owes her nothing. he is a good dad and sees his son all the time unless she is making plans for the kid when he is supposed to have him which happens all the time. SHe hangs out with another ***** who lost her kids because she is an unfit mother and she has her living with her. But she tells the judge she has no money and cant afford the mortgage. She had a hysterectomy 11 months ago and has played all her dr's into giving her dr's notes so she doesnt have to work and she leave my boyfriend with $100.00 a week.
She is the most malicious person I have ever met. These poor guys need more help. I would love to start and advocates group for men. And believe woman there are a lot of you out there that suck these guys dry. Get a job, get a life and deal with it.

[tbyte]

Originally Posted by canstarr

if that's the fact, why hasn't your husband filed for custody?? if she's doing all this he would have no problem getting his kids.

Canstarr, please let us know what country you live in. I am guessing somewhere in the Middle East? You cannot possibly be referring to the U.S. Family Courts...

I'm sorry everyone, but this site is meant for legal questions and legal answers. If you need to rant, go to craigslist!

[tbyte]

Yes, we need advice on how to use the forum from an unregistered user.....NOT!