absent father

[Postman]

nope pretty much got the picture, you were just trolling here.

[loved08]

ooooh...he rears his ugly head yet again. lol. yes i am here. allow me to make my grand entrance:

1st-ORIGINAL POSTER: you are a mother. this is your MOST important job. the end.
GET AN ATTORNEY. THE END. file the papers. do sled reports YOURSELF. your lawyer can do this. if you can't afford an attorney. represent yourself. you are your best defense. you know yourself & your child (& prob.this father better than any attorney can/will). study. study. study. law school is mostly studying case law. it's ongoing throughout your career as an attorney. so as an attorney for yourself (or even if you hire one), then you need to study.
2nd. as a mother who's doing the same. There is one thing that will help you through ALL of this. YOU are the only one who will give birth to this new soul. YOU are the ONLY one who will understand that kind of UNCONDITIONAL love to your child. YOU & ONLY YOU. I understand dad's love their children, but they will never know. When you all can birth a child & feel that, get back to me w/ ur smartass comments.
As for his "rights"...haha. What "rights". Just having sex w/ someone & creating a life doesn't give you "rights" to that life. It gives you a name. "BIOLOGICAL FATHER". Until you prove otherwise; that's all. Just as the mother. For the ******* postman; obviously he is the father of one of these "bastards" or he wouldn't run his mouth so much. Probably a ****ty dad for a few years then got pissed off when the mom refused visits. SO would I. & did. you can NOT decide to ABANDON your kids then just "oh i want to see my child now" a few years later. It's selfish, immoral, & illegal. That's why there are so many laws for children, rights, etc etc now. There are too many parents who think this is a job of convenience. It's NOT. It's 24/7 and NEVER gets any easier or less. It just changes.

3rd. "unregistered" is probably a scared mom who doesn't want to reveal her name/age/etc... just to cover her ass. I wouldn't either if I was afraid of my child's father. The only difference is I'm not. I'm not afraid of him, his cheeseball attorney, or anything else he wants to bring my way. He's a loser, a slackass dad, & a liar. He refused to be a part in his daughter's life for 2 yrs and now he wants to do it all bc his mommy & daddy (didn't know until 2 months b4 her 2nd birthday) want to be a part of her life. His mother even tried to make excuses for him not telling them. WHAT? seriously? If you can't admit when you're own child is wrong then you are NOT a good parent. You have to take the good w/ the bad, the pretty w/ the ugly, and the wrong w/ the right. It doesn't work 1 way. It's a 2 way street. SORRY.
4th. You need to document EVERYTHING. People don't seem to understand this. Did you know there was a HUGE nationally-covered case where a woman was assaulted by her HUSBAND on more than a few occasions. She went to the hospital, took pics, recorded, everything...& the **1** thing that got him convicted was a log (hand-written, no pics, nothing else-just words on a notebook paper) that her co-worker wrote down every incident. Every time this woman came in to work w/ black eyes, broken arms, etc. the co-worker wrote it down and SHE and SHE ALONE got the "husband" convicted. No...smarties I didn't forget what I was talking about; the POINT is to DOCUMENT. Every little missed day, phone calls, broken promises, every offer you give/gave/or am giving him to visit w/ the child, talk to the child, ANYTHING you should write down. This will hold MORE ground in court than anything else. This is NOT a joke. I'm doing the same w/ my fiance's PSYCHO ex. WHICH I WISH YOU WOULD ALL READ CAUSE I NEED FEEDBACK ASAP!!! (IT'S UNDER PSYCHO-EX NEED HELP ASAP or something...) moving on.

5th. In order to get an accurate explaination of what your'e going to need to do you need to give more info. There are many, many issues that come into play & we need to know more. Where do you 2 live? How old are you? how long have you known him? have you tried (really tried) to give him a chance? have you talked w/ family? his family? what about the child's relationship be with the paternal grandparents? this is vital. it WILL come into play. you should be prepared for ALL of these ?s the judge will ask. SC is a "mother" state, but is more inclined now to be "fair" to the father; even if they're ****heads like my child's biological father. YES...biological. My fiance is called daddy & acts like one. He loves her, feeds her, works for her, takes care of her DAILY, reads to her, plays w/ her, dresses her, etc. THIS IS A DAD. NOT AN EVERY OTHER WEEKEND SLACKASS WHO'S PARENTS TAKE CARE OF HER ON HIS DAYS. THIS WILL BE THE MEMORIES SHE TALKS ABOUT AT COLLEGE, PARTIES, AND SLEEPOVERS. THIS IS A DAD.

Trust me; no matter what happens, THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE who will love her/him the same way. You can forcefully try to take his rights or just ignore him and eventually he might go away for good. If poss. take the 2nd bc he might use the time/love/etc. w/ the child as payback. Which of course is about as unhealthy for the child as you can get but usually they don't care about the kid to begin w/ so it won't matter to them in the selfish process.

[tbyte]

huffamuse, I think it is best if we all just ignore postman from here on out.
I'd poke fun at him, but he is doing a much better job at making himself look stupid than I ever could. So lets just let him do his thing.

[Postman]

all cut from the same cloth

[Postman]

Hilarious, I bet yall are all 1 st cousins, including psycho-ex

[Postman]

Actually, I might be a bastard. After researching some anomallies like blood types, it led to the fact my birth certificate is fake. It's a legal as legal gets. But it doesnt resolve the fact there were no babies born that day. Nor the day before, or the day after. It was actually in a newspaper article. We finally firgured out I was sold.

I have a rare blood type only 1 in 10,000. Genetically even more rare.

[loved08]

yay. maybe there's a cheap disposal fee for trash sold on accident.

so yea...we're all 1st cousins. ha. no. hell no. *if* i was in any way related to this woman, she would not be breathing today. promise.

she's a psycho and this is a serious matter. maybe you don't have a life but we all have issues that we need to focus on. not you. have a ****ty life.

[huffamuse]

I think post is a little drunk.

[Postman]

can you spell

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