How should I go about this?

[LaStar00]

Hi. When I was 19 i gave my mom guardianship of my son. SHe said it was for insurance reasons but at the time I had Medcaid. I'm adopted so techinically I am not biologically tied with this woman. I gradaute college next winter and want to know how I should go about getting guardianship back? Anything that has to do with my son's school ,doctor's appointments, has my name on it. She sometimes just buys him stuff but not lately my boyfriend does that and wants to have his name put on my son's birth certificate. What do you think I should do? My boyfriend and I were going to tell her everything when I came back from Thanksgiving at his house. Give me some advice.

She should just give it back; if she does not a court will normally require it as you are the mother and have primary rights.

i am almost in the same boat that you are except, my brother and his wife accepted custody of my son when i was 22. At the time i was undiagnosed with bipolar and am finally being forced to get the help that i need . I have been through the system with my other two children and am on the virge of getting them back. However, My brother and his wife have completely turned my son against me.i want custody of him back too. And am currently being sued for child support 5 years after they took him.From the way that i understand they have been turned into social services twice by either my son or his school for beating him and now are trying to gain custody of one of my other children. My daughters foster parents dont understand it, they werent there for the first five months that they were in foster care and now all of the sudden they want her.... a thousand miles away.

Unless court orders exist that have to be undone, you should be able to demand custody again--you are still the primary parent.